Secret of Happy Married Life : Open and Adaptive communication

Marriage : Bombay Ladu, Koi kha key pastai koi na kha key pastai. (Apologize for bad Hindi, Blame to my Hindi Teacher not me :})

Some of my known and unknown secret researches would like to share with you......blame yourself for reading my blog if you do not like this. Haaa haa...kidding ....just killing my time to keep busy.....

Today I was talking with one of my friend about happy marriage life and found out how some couples are happy and how other are miserable. Some spouses are enjoying the Ladu and some spitting out as bitterness.

Same time I came across a book called, yet finish - Spousonomics. This does not say my idea but says some of mine or what everyone thinks.

Anyway my whole point of writing this blog is, what is the secret of successful and joyful life and married life.

I pray for everybody's joyful life but for a joyful life even God seldom help out. HE left out upon us....which I believe.

I am not writing book here by giving examples. Few tips I realized and found out for a successful marriage life are as below ....

1. Open Communication.
2. Planning.
3. Re planning and and learning.
4. Excusing.
5. Hard working. ( No excuse to this. If you are failed means you did not work out properly)
6. Writing down short and long dreams/objectives.
7. Fulfilling each other needs rationally.

Many more could be added to the list as per individual needs.

Okay, I know what you would be thinking....Stop Advising Binay!! Everyone knows this and you are the next fool to join the club....!!!

Okay,I am not taking much time....stopping here...thanks for reading.

God Bless Lalu,Maya,Raju,Rahul.....

Mr Tripathi a vegetarian,well disciplined,helpful,sober and soft spoken from Benarash is well settled computer engineer in the USA. He has been quite free since his family went on vacation to India. So most of his spare and lonely time passes by mugging up all free news about India in the internet. From cricket to ice hockey, from Obama to Gautam Budha,from apallo 11 mission to big bang theory, is in his lip. Just someone need to ask a question and listen to him. Who would not like to have him in the dinner table to spare week end time! He has been our source of many things.....

But ones his family away and plenty of free time with free news channels over the internet has took his happiness. Suddenly his loneliness and momentary emptiness in his life filled with cyclonic revolutionary ideology.

Now a days any question or topic leads to a land of software engineers' currently corrupt political image. I could feel his sentiment for his mother land. And it is good that few people have this rare quality. But can a straw with stand even a timid wind flow nor one can write name on water.

My Tipathi has tried to ignite wet flammable stick of Moonty with help of Mr Pati. Mr Sharif and Mr Viru try to col down by dreaming about world cup.

He has promised not to touch meat as long as least poor Indian sleeps without hunger. Though this helped to keep his blood pressure and fat under control but Raja,Maya and Power forced his hyper tension to rise.

His opinion was, one third of Swiss bank money is owned by Indian politicians black money. And if Indian Govt could bring them to India, India would become a rich nation. This is considering the fact that that money being converted to Rs and distributed equally among all poor Indians. Wow what a great idea, isn't it. I was thinking, some one said one third of scientist at NASA are Indians. So if we could do reverse bring drain, probably we would find alliances in outer space.

Among this hypothetical patriotic cyclone at dinner table tried to root out many deep rooted corrupt current news. From Raju to Lallu and May to Jaya. Amid some one feeling regret of 7/11 parliament attack failure. Some occasions dinner table turns into like a CIA top brass meeting to attack Iran. But anyhow one hours passes by and every body starts licking their finger while finishing their dinner and ready to move out. No sooner every body open their wallet to hand over credit card all cyclonic patriotism melts down by lowering dollar value. CIA stand for (coward Indian Association) .

Well there are plethora of example....Tripathi is a Aaam Admi like me. Every Sacha Aaam Admi are smoking like recent Egypt face book revolution.

Myself no different from crowd. I have to follow the wind. I believe in God like Mr Tripathi. I believe whatever happening is happening because of God's Will. And of course in my life God never denied If I asked any blessings. Only thing I need to know is what I want to so that I could wish before God. One day I got inspired by Gandhiji. I prayed God to make all our politicians,wicked persons and corrupt persons a novel gentle man. In this way because of heavenly prayer all would become a Yudhister and they them self would bring all money back home.

I think at least you could pray this if not throw a stone at them.....